The Big Sick
Directed by Michael Showalter
Pakistan-born comedian Kumail Nanjiani and grad student Emily Gardner fall in love but struggle as their cultures clash. When Emily contracts a mysterious illness, Kumail finds himself forced to face her feisty parents, his family's expectations, and his true feelings.
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★★★★ review by ellie on Letterboxd
i never thought i'd say this but ᶜᵃⁿ ᴵ ᵍᵉᵗ ᵘʰʰʰʰ adopted by holly hunter and ray romano
★★★★ review by SilentDawn on Letterboxd
The distinction here is 'truth'. This is a real tale, written about real personalities and events and moments, but The Big Sick is imbued with a gentle understanding of what makes itself effective for the silver screen. It's achingly aware of the story's limitations, the balancing act between comedy and drama, and its gradual moral resolve. But above all else, the film never attempts a certain level of vérité or overt naturalism. It moves and plays with a tremendous amount of grace, especially in an early relationship montage which moves like a little snapshot of liquid feeling, and it commits to the realities of the situation, but never to a fault.
It's even more interesting structurally. The first-half reeling you in, the second-half re-orchestrating past conceptions, and a denouement built for emotional whiplash. The Big Sick is possibly the sweetest movie to ever desire a savage removal of your tears, and even then, you welcome it. Writing, casting, and the non-intrusive melancholy of its visual language are all lovely. That the story's real, and played that way, just makes the heart flutter all the more.
★★★½ review by kevinyang on Letterboxd
This is a well made film with a big heart. It features a likable cast and crew doing what they do best. It’s a funny, touching, and deeply personal story that I’m very glad Kumail is sharing with us. And yet, there’s definitely something I missed that everyone else seemed to get. It’s certainly not the quality of the performances, as they’re excellent across the board and feature vets Ray Romano and Holly Hunter essentially carrying an entire half of the film. It’s certainly not the dialogue, as it’s frequently engaging and witty and even contains some brilliant dark jokes. It’s certainly not the messages of acceptance and love that are prominent in the story.
I’d say the biggest problem here is a structure one. The opening act has an indie rom-com feel to it as Kumail and Emily meet and strike up a romance, but once the “big sick” occurs, Kazan’s character is taken out of the picture for the most part and it feels like a very different film. This is not to say that one act is better than the other or that the film’s desire to explore the familial ramifications of the “big sick” are not worthwhile; rather, the various pieces just don’t fit together as well as they should. It’s admirable seeing the amount of mileage some of the cast gets out of (too) limited screen time, but the story also drags in places as collateral damage of its inability to smoothly transition between the first two acts. To add onto this, there’s also a humdrum subplot involving a group of comedians trying to make it to the big leagues, and being able to enjoy Bo Burnham’s presence still doesn’t prevent these characters from being the weakest and most superfluous of the film.
All being said, it’s still very solid. I just don’t quite agree with the extent of the praise that has been lavished upon it. Perhaps it’s because I’m getting a bit tired of this “comedian slice of life” framework, or perhaps it’s because I wasn’t able to connect with the story on the same level as others. But more likely it’s just because this isn’t anything special.
★★★★★ review by Buddy O on Letterboxd
The Big Sick is probably the best movie i've seen all year.
As someone who thought I was about to be with someone and now it's probably not going to work out. This hit me in the right spot.
I think I went through every emotion possible and it made me feel things I really needed to feel right now.
★★★★½ review by adrianbalboa on Letterboxd
i saw a matinee of this with a crowd of old people and you know which joke got the biggest laugh? i'll give you a hint: it was about hugh grant
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